We want a subordinate, a friend, a spouse to do our bidding, to embody in action our own intention, but also to show initiative, to anticipate our unstated wants and needs. Not content to command the other's body, making of it an extension of our will, we want also to command the other's freedom, making of it an instrument of our freedom.
I say to wifey: Bring me back a case of Fat Tire Ale. Upon her return, no ale is in evidence. Inquiring why not, I am told that it was unavailable. "Why then did you not fetch me a case of Sam Adam's Boston Ale?"
"Because that is not what you asked for, and had I brought back Sam Adam's you would have complained that it was not Fat Tire."
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