How do you know that your present inamorata is the right woman for the long haul?
Well, if she tells you that she can do better, then you know she isn't. When Brandeis girl said that to me years ago, I handed her her walking papers.
But if she says to you, "My hero!" and means it, then that is a defeasible indicator that you are into something good. In a couple of weeks we celebrate our 34th wedding anniversary.
The beauty of it is that you don't have to be particularly heroic. You only have to appear that way to her.
In a world of seemings, seeming, which is always seeming to someone, can take you quite a distance. On the other hand, seeming with no being behind it won't seem for long.
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